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July 2011

If you do a search on the Wikipedia website for July you do get some interesting information. Several that caught my eye especially were the amount of wars, revolutions and battles that occurred during this month. Of course that could be true of any month and within the aggressive events there were others that marked more auspicious occasions such as the first international telephone call in 1881, 1960 saw Ghanaian independence and the unification of Germany in 1990.

            So why do we want to remember things? Why do we feel the need to mark these events? I would hope that not many of you would have wars, revolutions and battles to remember but you may have more positive things to mark. Births and especially marriages are a good starting point. We all go through our lives being touched by many many situations and circumstances. They all shape us but we do not choose to celebrate them all. It seems I only mark those that have a huge affect on me.  Much like the events described above, they indicate something that has had an enormous impact on individuals or the world around us.

            There is something that has had a very major impact on my life and could do for all of us. It is a record of situations and events that have shaped the world we live in and the lives of so many people. It speaks of a relationship yearned for and a desire to see people and situations transformed. A series of stories marked with despair and joy in equal measure. A great record of love found in war and peace. A love that was willing to give everything. A love story? Yes I would say so. Or even more, a love letter that has been read in times of suffering and happiness but a love story nonetheless. If you haven’t got it by now I am talking about the bible. It is all of the above and much more. Try it, I dare you!

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


June 2011

If I was a betting man it would be odds on that at the end of April the phrase “great weather we are having” was followed by “but we will pay for it later though” or “this is probably our summer for this year”. Ah! It is comforting to know that we haven’t lost our sense of fair play. That Great British corporate consciousness that all things must be equalled out in the end. That when it comes to the crunch we are, as a nation, able and very willing to take the rough with the smooth, the light with the dark and see the positive in any mishap.

            But honestly that wasn’t what we were thinking though was it? Yes we enjoyed the sun while it lasted and basked in the rays, joyously commenting on the fact that we were hotter than... (Please insert as applicable) but in the end we just couldn’t help ourselves from thinking that there was no way we would not get something for nothing. That eventually we would have to pay for our fortune. We expected that this sudden bout of great weather would end up as a lousy summer of hail, rain and thunderstorms. Or even when the summer still appeared to be good (as it may well be at this moment) we will then get a terrible winter.

            Well I can’t help you with that I’m afraid, you will always think like that until you realise that there are moments that you can get something for nothing, or at least not get what you expect or deserve. That God in His wisdom and love, and without any expectations of us, is willing to give us more than we ought to have. We could turn around and comment that we will expect to pay for it eventually but honestly that really isn’t the case. Trust me I’m a minister.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


May 2011


For someone who came to university later in life I have been fascinated by the furore surrounding the latest push from government regarding fostering opportunities for those from “less well off” backgrounds. The quote on the BBC News website from Nick Clegg goes “no-one should get an unfair advantage because their parents have met somebody at the tennis club or the golf club". The phrase “it’s not what you know but who you know” is the one we know well and we have also experienced that come true to differing degrees.

            I am not going to enter the argument for nor against in this instance but just to say that, hasn’t this always been the case. First of all we are so very obviously shaped by “who we know” from a very early age. The biggest influences are our parents and the circumstances we have grown up in. The “who we know”, and our relationships with them, from parents to grandparents, from siblings to friends, have a huge effect on our character, our view of the world and how we relate to that world (warts and all). The “what we know” is swayed by the impact of “who we know” and the way our character and life has been formed by them.

            My life was changed when I came to know someone who looks at life from a greater vantage point than mine, one who knows us all inside out and shows no regard for himself but gives up all to give us the prospect of seeing life from a very different angle indeed.  An angle that, when we are inevitably faced with the “what we know” not being all that we would expect, enables us to respond to fear with faith, offer grace for resentment and choose hope instead of despair.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


April 2011


There are several events that I could mention that have happened over the last few months and many have a similar theme. But the uprisings or revolutions that have gripped the Middle East have reminded me of the fall of communism and the fledgling democracies that sprang up after the Berlin wall was torn down. It is not surprising that what first appeared in Tunisia began to form in many other countries across that region and the call of the population for freedom has a mind of its own. The sheer volume and intensity of the gatherings must have been quite something. The collective will of the people to come against years of hardship and fear was breathtaking.

            Some were successfully nonviolent but, at the time of writing, some were not so and I can’t help but notice the worry in the faces of many leaders in the west. We are all told and know of our reliance on oil and it does seem that many decisions are made with reference to this need or our advantage. This means that maybe our strategic choices have not always been, well let’s say, honourable. Freedom comes at a price but that price seems to be higher for some than others and we have chosen to be pragmatic at best, blind at our worst, in our dealings with some who have not lived up to our standards?

            The cost of freedom is actually a lot higher than we think. True, real and lasting freedom is not given to us by governments or man. The cost of freedom has been paid and paid in full. Easter shows us that it isn’t our own self-determination or anything bestowed on us from others that frees us but the death of Jesus and his resurrection that actually takes the burden of anger, greed and selfishness from us. Freedom to live the life we should although circumstances may seem otherwise. I wonder if those attributes may have a lot to do with why some in the west are worried about freedom in the Middle East. God only knows. All I know is at Easter, God in Christ, frees me from those worries and if God frees you are free indeed.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


March 2011

March : An organized walk or procession by a group of people for a specific cause or issue. Of course there are many other definitions of March and I won’t bore you with the details here but this one in particular caught my eye. Why? because there is a sense of a shared purpose, a mutual experience and a collective will. How many of us can say that there would be enough people we know that shared a purpose? The knowledge that those involved are together in a common cause. Can we all pinpoint an encounter we have had with a great number of others? The euphoria and excitement that comes from such an occasion. Would we be able to express a time when everyone seemed to be going in the same direction?

            A lot of people are said to crave this type of experience, that desire of a common bond and a community life. It is equally said that society is sorely missing it and far worse off for that very fact. We have to be careful though not to generalise because many do share these experiences. We may not recognise them because we do not get the signs. The signs are often the Hoodie and the iphone (one of which I do not own), the football scarf and the chants and the grumpy old man syndrome. The only problem is, not all of us can take part in these because we do not identify with them. That does not make them not worthwhile or less meaningful.

            The challenge of the church is to cross these barriers. Note: I did not say break them down! Our call from Jesus is to reach across, so that everyone knows there is no longer a restriction to learning that we all, in the end, need the same thing, God!. A March as described above does not need to be at a prescribed pace and in a certain style, we just need do it together. So... anyone for a walk?

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


February 2011


February can be a boring month. Maybe that’s the wrong word to use? Maybe it is better to say February is a bit odd? I don’t know how to put it really because, I guess, February does that to you. It sits there not quite winter, not quite spring. The days are longer but not too much longer. It’s getting warmer but not too much warmer. The grass is greener but, you guessed it, not too much greener. We have had the excitement of Christmas. We have survived the celebrations and resolutions of  the New Year. When it comes down to it February is an average sort of month.

            However I have to say I like average sometimes. Average is comfortable. Average is safe. Average is easy on the heart. It does not get the blood going. It doesn’t stress you out and it is neither high nor low. It’s just, well, average. I think another way to say it, is “just kick off your shoes, take to a cosy chair and relax”. Actually I am beginning to not like average when I think about it in those terms. I’m not sure I like comfortable or safe. I quite like my heart and blood to be going a little. I want to be high and low at times because it is then you know you are alive.

            We can be mistaken into thinking that we are average sorts of people and I ‘m sure we don’t like that feeling. We don’t like to think we are comfortable and safe, neither high or low, a bit cosy and relaxed. Well let me let you into a little secret I know. You may not realise it but you are far from average. You are quirky, a little strange, exciting and well not like February at all. You are the most interesting person in the world. Why? because you are wonderfully and fearfully made. You are created in the image of God. You are the likeness of the almighty and everlasting, awe inspiring, powerful, creative and the most un-average person you are ever likely to meet. There, doesn’t that sound more like it. You are far from being February. The challenge now is to live up to your top billing.

 

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

 

December 2010

 

In all honesty, hand on heart, I can say I don’t like to be known. I refrained from using the word celebrity or to be famous because that would just sound crass. Over the last few weeks people have been coming up to me saying “saw you in the papers” or “nice photo in Chip News” (thanks go to Terry Simmonds for that, just remember I know where you live) and I have been genuinely embarrassed, mostly in conceit at the numerical state of my jaw, but also because I have felt uncomfortable. Why? I hear you ask, isn’t that what everyone craves. Isn’t that how our society works, that the sole aim for any human being is to be noticed, to be recognized, to be famous just for being famous? That may well be the case but I don’t feel that way and I am convinced many of you feel as I do.

            What we all really want, what drives us to crave attention, is the need to be appreciated for who we are and ultimately loved for that reason as well. Not for what we can do. Not for how attractive we are. Not for the letters after our names and not for the size of our bank balance or number of bedrooms in our house. It is for who we are that we want to be prized.

            The Good News message at Christmas is about exactly that. Not just that “God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son” but that he chose in no uncertain terms to be like us. He came not with whistles and bells. He didn’t come in pomp and circumstance. He did not appear with fan-fair and national celebration. You did not see him on X Factor or Big Brother. He didn’t have a camera crew following every twist and turn of his life, exposing the family quirks. He came quietly and with little fuss.

Well that is not exactly true is it? Angels, shepherds, wise men bearing gifts and trouble with the authorities. All of these, on their own, would have caused a little stir, but all together there must have been a bit of a do! Maybe actually it is not about being known, being famous or a celebrity that is the problem but WHY we are! For the start of his life was not easy for Jesus because once the noise had died down he had to flee for his life. Not the normal response to celebrity. In the end he was famous for all the right reasons. Humility, forgiveness, service and love. Now that’s what I think is worth being famous for.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

Well it’s official. I am now done. I am ordained. I can now be called the Reverend Jason Gain. It was suggested that I might like to let everyone know what this event, service or act means for us in the Baptist Church and given I know very little about how others do it I thought that was a great idea. So here goes and I will make it as short as I can.

            Whether you agree with the title Reverend or not the most important thing about an ordination service is first and foremost it has God at the centre and us knowing His continuing work in the world and the lives of individuals. That might sound a little pompous and I guess to some it does, but what the celebration entails is the recognition that none of us are what we are without Him and each other. The service begins with a story, well a few stories actually. Many people are involved in any call to ministry. The church I belonged to before Chipperfield are those that first recognise God’s call on my life. When I say the church I really do mean every single member deciding prayerfully that together we should explore this call. Next it is the wider church, the associated church representatives (of good standing of course), do likewise but with a little more rigor. Onwards and upwards.

The next step to the beginning of my journey is to be accepted by the Baptist Union in the form of one of the ministerial colleges and in truth I will never really know how I managed to pass at all. As I said this is only the beginning and here is where Chipperfield comes in. Much like the church decision to explore ministry with me, all the members of Chipperfield Baptist Church must decide whether or not I am called to be their minister.

            For Baptists it is the Baptist Church, nationally and locally, that sees God at work in any individual and acts upon it. The act of ordination, and everything this entails, is done by, yes, individuals but as representatives of all those that have been a part of the journey. The importance of all these people in the recognition of and their involvement in my call, and the shaping of my gifts and ministry are reflected in the service itself. Every single person, Christian or not, are part of this story. Baptist ordination is not about one individual but about us all recognising our responsibility to each other.

When we see how each person in any community is of value and that God can speak through them, then we know what it is to truly be ourselves. This story to ordination didn’t start here in Chipperfield and is not going to end here. Wherever we are we all have a duty to recognise, support and encourage everyone to be who God wants and calls them to be.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

October is a special time for all of us at Chipperfield Baptist Church. The event that will see this month unlike any other that we have, as a church, experienced will be my ordination service on Saturday the 2nd of October. Yes you have read correctly. If you have followed my rambles over the past three years you would be aware that for some time now I have been their student minister and so have been practicing my ministering on the poor unsuspecting members of the Baptist Church. You have in some way been party to my trials and tribulations with my college endeavours and subject to the way my mind works (you should try living with it).

            However I joke when I say “my ministering” because it has not been about me. It has not actually been about me at all. I can never take any credit for the call of God on my life. I didn’t deserve it and certainly couldn’t have done it without the knowledge that God was at the very heart of all that has happened. I know that I couldn’t even begin to imagine what it would be like doing this without Him and would not consider doing it if He wasn’t with me now.

            Even more so this event is about the church. Back in August 2007 none of us knew each other very well at all. The church prayerfully responded to God and they took this apprehensive and unknown quantity into their lives, with I am sure just as much anxiety as I had. They not only got me, they got my family as well and they have taken us into their lives with huge amounts of grace and love. For that I can only thank them and God for all that they have done. It is every member of the congregation that has taught me more about myself, the church and God. The things I have learnt at college have given me a framework but the reality of being Church can only be learnt with real people and in real relationships.

            It was in response to God together that the journey was begun and it is in response to Him again that we all look to the future. Recognising what God has done is the only way to continue any journey because it gives us the faith to know He has always been there and will always be there, right up until the final destination. Wherever that is?

 

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

            All the kids are back to school at last and our existence is back to normal. OK for some of us this isn’t a problem because the chicks have flown the nest but for others this is a future hope and for now it has been six weeks of finding things for them to do, ferrying to and fro and the stressful holiday departure and return.  All done while maintaining the daily routine of work and home with a joyful countenance. Sound familiar?

            Of course children are a blessing and given to us to enjoy. They fill our lives with pleasure and an innocent openness that often punctures our pretentions. They look at life differently with great enthusiasm and passion. For them it isn’t the reserved, measured and calculated approach to life but a determined energy to experience life at its fullest. Please excuse me when I say I don’t think I have ever written such drivel in my life (Sunday mornings come close).

            “Kids of today...” is a phrase I find myself using. They usually have everything that they want. But for them life is not free and open because they are driven by peer pressure to conform. We as parents encourage and compel them to succeed on our terms. They are manipulated by advertisers, soap operas and reality TV. From an early age they are bombarded with images that would make even the most hardened of us blush.

What they need is to be innocent. Time to be open. Time to do life with passion and know that someone is always there for them. They should have the opportunity and time to make mistakes and still know that everything will be alright. They want to make choices that they want to make, because it builds character and makes them more able human beings. Surely when we look at our kids we should be proud to say they think for themselves and are governed by what is really important not what they are told is. “Because the Kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these”, we could learn something about ourselves when we really let kids be what they should be.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

            As I sit here writing I am scanning the BBC news website. It’s June 1st 2010 and there is not a great deal on the website to cheer me up. You can read about the BP oil leak and the likely effects on wildlife. There are headlines about the Israeli raid on the Palestinian aid ships and the Kurdish rocket attack on a Turkish naval base. One talks about the killing of a prominent al-Qaeda leader and another the death of a UK soldier in Afghanistan. Closer still to home other headlines include the continuing work of police investigating the murders of three women in Bradford and the violence on British streets after closing time.

            You can’t help but think all is not well in this world of ours. All is not going to plan. We have been told by politicians and world leaders that we (meaning them) can make a difference. That they will work to produce an age where all will be better for everyone. That peace and harmony will be ours if we only just hope in them. We are promised that all we need do is trust them and the ills of the world will be vanquished to history. Each one of us will be protected from harm and have enough so that we will never need again. We are promised Utopia.

            Now that sounds great doesn’t it? A life given to us that means no more strife, pain, sadness, hate and need. I can’t help thinking something is not quite right. Now what is it? What can it be? Oh I know! I am beginning to see the flaw in all this. It may be a surprise to you but I am feeling a little uncomfortable with my conclusion. You see the biggest fault line in all this is ME. I am not being hard and down on myself but I have to recognise that I cannot leave these things to others. I cannot discharge my responsibility to others.  Am I capable of changing the world? That sounds a bit farfetched but when things aren’t great “No one could make a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could do only a little.”* If we are created in the image of God then we must be capable of some pretty amazing things don’t you think?


Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

*Edmund Burke


June 2010

 

For some, and I am one of them, this month holds a great deal of excitement. To start with this June sees the beginning of the world cup in South Africa. Thirty two teams from all around the world playing sixty four games to decide which one is the best. It is said that it is the greatest sporting event on this planet. An event of wonder at the talent of individuals and the solidarity and hard work of eleven men. Millions if not billions will tune in to see the teams battle it out for the prize. Millions if not billions will be spent on advertising and sponsorship. Many players earning not only the accolade and admiration of their supporters but a few quid to boot! (do you like the pun there?).

            But with all my enthusiasm and expectation I can’t help but wonder how the players and supporters will react to the poverty and social deprivation seen in the country. No matter what we hear and what is actually said about the advances made in South Africa there are still great gaps between the rich and the poor. Between those that have and have not. The world cup will accentuate this with every game. In the end however, what we say or feel about the matter, the people of South Africa are ecstatic about the whole occasion. They see it as a chance to show the whole world they are changing; they are leaving behind old prejudices and years of hate and violence. Let’s hope their passion for the game and their country proves to have a positive effect on the rest of the world.

            The other thing happening this month is that I will be coming to the end of my three years at college. No more a minister in training. No more essays and assignments. No more trips to Oxford. It will also be marked with excitement and sorrow. I have learnt a great deal about myself during this time at college but more importantly the members of the Baptist church have taught me even more. We will be going forward with excitement and passion. Not quite on the scale of the world cup but still it is just as much a “funny old game”.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

 

 May 2010

 

 

At the time of writing none of us are sure when the general election will be. All indications are that it will happen early to mid May. So have you been practicing writing your cross? Have you decided which party to vote for? Are you even going to bother at all? The last question is a crucial one. The lack of enthusiasm at the last election and the never ending scandals over recent months will lead many of us to think why on earth should we vote?

            Can I offer a thought? When my first child was born a wise man said to me “We get the children we deserve” I want to pose this question to all of us “Do we get the politicians we deserve?” With our children our hope is to steer them to the right kind of behaviour, to shape their attitudes towards others and to teach them to make a worthwhile contribution to society. Should we ask that of our politicians? In truth, for all the scandal, they are not all bad. The very behaviour, attitudes and character we wish to see in our children are seen in the overwhelming number of politicians of all colours, shapes or sizes. The real facts, when you get behind the screaming headlines, bear this out. That some have been caught with their hands in the cookie jar, so to speak, should not deflect us from what should be a driving force to change our society for the better.

            Often the manifestos offered by any of the parties are based on focus groups and forums. Who makes up these groups? Well us, the general public, those that they wish to ingratiate and therefore capture our vote. If we are honest we don’t vote to shape behaviour, attitudes and make a worthwhile contribution to society but we vote for our own interests. How different is that to having our hands in the cookie jar?

 

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse

 
April 2010
 
 

Carrying on from last month’s musings, boy am I glad spring is here. Gone are the dreary dark nights of winter. Gone are the cold winds laced with snow and ice. Gone are the gloves, scarves and heavy coats. Gone are the stark bear trees and the lack of colour.  Welcome the bright longer days. Welcome the warm sun and gentle breezes. Welcome the light clothing and easy ways. Welcome the splash of colour and life abounding. Amen and Hallelujah!

            It is no wonder that Easter appears on the scene in spring. I know the historical inaccuracies of when. I get the link with other religious observances. I understand the modern commercial intrusions. But it is no wonder that the need of humankind over the centuries has been to celebrate the new life that is so obviously expressed when spring comes. After the drab and gloomy experience of winter and the harshness experienced in the months before spring, you can’t blame anyone from wanting to celebrate what is a blossoming and much welcomed change of circumstances.

            And in Jesus Easter is about just that. When you know that things are not quite right in your world. When you are sick and tired of facing the coldness that life seems to throw at you. When you are weighed down with stuff that never satisfies. When you look and see nothing but monotonous and arid meaning. Welcome and celebrate the change that Easter brings. Welcome and celebrate the warmth and colour of purpose and meaning. Welcome and celebrate true satisfaction of knowing you are loved. Welcome and celebrate that at Easter God in Jesus Christ brings about a change of circumstance for every one of us. Amen and Hallelujah!

 

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


 

March 2010

 

Spring always follows winter. True? Yes well of course it does. Once the dark nights have given way, slowly and surely, to the bright mornings, the brain and senses seem to take on a new lease of life. Plants begin to get greener. Animals begin to get livelier. The upturn in life all around seems to gather pace. I for one will be grateful to see the sun. I for one will be looking forward to the warmth instead of the cold biting winds, ice and snow. Life is forever changing. There are always seasons and variety in the British climate. It isn’t all sun and it isn’t all cold and wet (although it might seem like it sometimes). 

            Over the last few months we would be forgiven in saying global warming? as the north pole had appeared to have taken up residence over the UK. The weather men got last year completely wrong. The promised barmy BBQ summer and mild winter never came to fruition. But when it comes down to it life without change and life without surprises would be a bit tedious. We may say we don’t like change but imagine it for a moment! We may say we don’t like surprises but imagine that for a moment!

            Just like the Great British weather and the changing seasons our lives would be pretty dull without diversity and challenge. The difference comes when we only have mistaken forecasts to rely on. When we have no point of reference, when things don’t go as we expect, we look for something to offer a firm foothold and find that the supplies of grit are not as readily available as we were promised.

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse


 
 
February 2010 
 

“All you need is love da da da da da all you need is love da da da da da”.... and so on. I thought it apt this month to concentrate of what makes February sort of special-ish. St Valentine's Day is great for some and for others quite onerous. The time when we pledge our love for our nearest and dearest with gifts, cards and a little romance. We may buy into the profit-making onslaught or genuinely use the day to say “I love you” but I don’t agree with the sentiments of the Beatles classic alluded to above. “Foul” I hear you cry. How can a minister say such a thing and a minister of a faith who’s cornerstone is the demonstration of the greatest act of love shown to all men, that of Jesus Christ.

Well that’s exactly the point, the “demonstration” and the “act” of love. Christianity is not all about love in a commercial, wishy-washy and vacuous way. If love does not reveal itself in actions it means nothing. In the bible there are many references to the love God has for us being rooted in what He has done for us and what He is still doing. There are also many references to the love God expects us to exhibit. That we should not just wish others well but, in love, we should provide them with what they lack so that they will be well. For the widows and orphans real love expresses itself in action.

            True love also means a distaste of all that is wrong (1 Corinthians 13:6). In our relationships there may be things we find annoying and tedious (how hard is it to put the tops on things properly!!!) but that is not the root problem that real love is there to change. NO! We can fall foul of thinking that to love someone is to accept what they do. Who they are is not the problem, what they do is. God truly accepts who we are but does not love what we do sometimes. To change our actions and reveal the true price of love God sent Jesus Christ to DEMONSTRATE what love can do in ACTIONS. Actions which were not wishy-washy and vacuous but were both demanding and life changing. That kind of love is all you need.

 

 

Love

Jason

The Man in the Manse